I would like to start this thread, because it has been a struggle for me, as I have had more friends over the past year and a half. I want to be more intentional with my friends and use my time wisely. It seems it's been an ongoing issue, and I want to get suggestions for what others here are implementing. I want to use scriptures to meditate on and especially use Jesus in the Gospels as my example of "work and rest" Crowds and solitude . There is a time to speak and a time to keep silent. Just an example, I used 30 minutes of my time here to look at the video someone suggested, ( I didn't watch its entirety) send it to my friend, converse with her about two minutes, and then write this post! The intentionality of it was that I intentionally planted seeds with the video. And now I am intentionally praying the Lord opens her heart through the truth of the video.